written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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There are people that induce us such negative vibes … that we might even believe … we suffer of … depression. But you know … vibes come and go … and we still can’t remember that … written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
So many people write to me … making the confusion that i might be kind of a psychotherapist … or relationship guru … but in reality i am just a … thinker.
In my search for understanding the world .. i was analyzing all around myself … liking a lot to … define everything i see on the scene of life.
I started to write my thoughts … from the need of organizing all i was thinking … and make the conclusions be more clear … especially for me.
But it was nice cause people were writing me … even if they made this confusion regarding myself …
I had more chances to understand relationships and love stories … and in fact the souls of the humans.
I somehow believe that life it’s a lot related with … the presence of the humans in here.
Yesterday … for example … Diana wrote me.
She’s from Serbia … living in Belgrade … married by many, many years … but with a man that she believes … is not ok for her.
Even if … Diana is a very intelligent woman … she could not realize in those years if … in fact she’s depressive … or the presence of her husband induces her those weird feelings of depression.
Every time she was seeing him … her vibe became so bad … that she somehow believed she is dominated by negativity … only and only because of him.
But she was probably not 100% … and that was the reason she wrote me.
Maybe the depression itself … meant a non ending feeling … and she actually was balancing between having a normal vibe … as all the other humans … and depression.
More i was talking to my serbian friend … more i was feeling that she expects from me … to reveal her a secret that she is not capable of finding out … by herself.
I was meditating on all what Diana … had told me … and on the other hand i knew that many, many couples … from all around the world … are living exactly the same scenario … but ….
So … what was the real truth?!
Why people … living together … being together as couple … induce themselves so negative vibes?!
Is Diana’s husband really responsible for that?!
Was the guy a real asshole?!
Or … i ask myself …. what if the connection itself between the 2 of them … is the one responsible for that.
I started to believe that …. in fact … Diana was not a depressive person … cause she had many moments when she was also feeling ok … but the destroyed connection with her life partner … had a tremendous negative impact for her.
And still?!
What was the solution?!
What could i say to my friend?!
What could i say to all the people having this experience …. Diana had?!
Well … i simple smiled … and said … nothing.
Most probably … the only real solution … was to completely cut the connection with the husband.
I could say that to Diana … but maybe she was not ready to hear me.
She was totally convinced that her husband was the Devil itself … and the meaning of having him around was to … make her life miserable.
The depression itself … was a positive thing … but she could not accept that.
The meaning of negative vibes that she felt so, so often …. when she was around her life partner …. were carrying a very powerful message.
But … maybe Diana could not understand the real meaning … that the depression itself was the gateway to the real happiness.
All she had to do … was so, so simple …
… just cut the connection.
And probably stop blaming her husband … as being the …. Devil.
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